Tuesday, 4 October 2011

Remembering the moment when....

I presume everybody knows I am a busy busy busy person. Regardless of my condition of being terribly heavy at the end of my trimester, carrying this huge belly everywhere I go, I still have a lot of things to do that refrained me from relaxing on the sofa with a cup of tea in my hand and watch my favourite movie. Oh no, no, no. Can't do that. If I did, then I would easily trigger the WW3. Have I not told you that C is my middlename? C for Chaos?

Well, a day before I unexpectedly gave birth to my tiny baby Muhammad Aiman, I was still climbing the stairs a the Business faculty, chasing several people that have influence on my future, trying to get their consent on a couple of things that need to be settled immediately. Come evening when most of the items in my Things To Do Today list have been attended to  (alhamdulillah!), I headed back to my room, planning to perform the Asr prayer there before I go home. That was the time I discovered my panties was covered with blood.  Oh! Panic! Panic! Panic! Must inform hubby. No, go to the hospital first. Oi! What about the children? Gosh, I've not prepared the baby's bag yet. Hey! There's a chewing gum under my shoes! @#*&%!!!!.........

If I could run, I would. If I could fly, that would be even better! 

At 7pm my husband took me to the hospital. After registration we were instructed to wait at the lobby while the staff allocate a room for me. While waiting, one by one, more pregnant ladies registered and waited with us. One of them already broke her water bag,  her sarong was all wet. Another lady was shaking at a corner for whatever reason I did not know. The lady who came in last was given priority, nurses saw baby's head already emerging. The situation at the waiting room was horrible to me. I say it was horrible because amidst the tense in the air, there I was sitting gaily like there was nothing to worry about!    


Because I did not feel any pain. I have no contractions. Masya-Allah! And I still believe the bloody panties was normal when a pregnant lady counted the number of stairs many times in a day. What more when the due date is still a long way to come. With confidence I told my husband that I am not going to give birth in the next 24 hours. I even persuaded him to take me home immediately. The blood was just a false alarm.

"No, you can't go home!" The doctor scolded me.  I turned sulky.

So I spent the night at the ward. It felt exactly like going on a vacation somewhere and staying in a hotel.  I ate, watched TV, read magazines and played with the air-conditioner remote control till I got bored and fell asleep.

Next morning when I woke up and wanted to perform Suboh prayer, I discovered more blood on the bed sheet. Called the nurse. She inspected me, went out and came back ten minutes later with three other nurses and prepared me for the labour room.

"You must be kidding me! I am not ready yet!" I grabbed the nurse's hand in surprise.

"Ready or not, here you go!" She smiled. 

An hour later, Muhammad Aiman was born......Alhamdulillah.

Here are the pics that my husband took when the baby came to the world.

He spent two days in the incubator because his lungs have not fully developed yet, which means he can't breathe on his own without support. Another five days in the infant nursery because he had prolonged jaundice due to his premature condition. He went home when he was a week old, greeted and welcomed by all the family members and relatives. Oh, so grand...!

p/s: I discovered later that the hospital admin had to call the wireman to repair the air-conditioner in the room that I stayed. It had not been working properly since I left the room.  *scratch head*


  1. As-salaamu-alaykum Dear sister Ati

    It is so good to have you back, even if you have to run off again, but by now we understand that indeed you are very, very busy. Inshaa'Allah this busyness will bring you good results.

    Masha'Allah that things went so easy for you with the birth of your baby and Alhamdullillah that he is now healthy and adorable. Allah has truly blessed you.

    Stay well always sister and may Allah give you blessings in all that you do.


  2. Waalaikum salam, sister Zarina,

    Alhamdulillah, baby delivery was quick and easy for me amidst the non-stop chaos in the house. I wish to share my secret here: Recite the ayah of Prophet Yunus (when he was trapped in the belly of the fish) every morning, each time after prayer and before you go to sleep. Insya-Allah, The Almighty hears you and provides you with his help and blessings.

    And thanks to you too, sister Zarina. Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah bless you always. Ameen.

  3. Assalamu alaikum! Thank you so much for posting these precious pictures!!! MashaAllah what a blessing to deliver so effortlessly!

    Are you finished with your thesis?

  4. Waalaikum salam Nadia,

    Alhamdulillah, it was a blessing from Allah that I did not really feel the labour pain. A friend of mine spent 22 hours waiting in pain for the baby to come, but in my case, it's less than a hour. Alhamdulillah, I am so grateful.

    Do you like the pictures? They are rare and amazing, aren't they?

    Insya-Allah, Nadia, by end of this year I will finish my study. Please pray Allah make it easy for me. I need your duas right now...Thanks, sis.

  5. I love the pictures! They're precious.

    Will make loads of prayers for your success. May Allah make it easy for you, sis. Ameeeen.

  6. I love the pics too. Thank you for your duas, sis. I really need them right now. Take care!



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